About Scorpios....

Scorpio's - Love Profile Your positive traits: Your red hot passion makes anyone you date feel extremely wanted. Loyalty, to the point of doing anything to protect your lover. You are mysterious and charismatic - and you easily draw people in. Your negative traits: (Moi? Nah!) You tend to be paranoid and think that the worst is going on with your lover... (Hey! Some times...I'm right!) You turn cold and mean at the first sign of conflict in relationship. (I do not!!) You sometimes become obsessed with "dates" - so much so that you develop jealousy early on. (No, not me! *weg*) Your ideal partner: Someone who will take the time to win you over. Not an easy task! (Hey! Watch it!) Is able to keep up with your carnal appetite... lots of stamina needed. (*Wicked Smile*) Reassures you of their love and loyalty on a daily basis. (Indeed!) Your dating style: (I Do Not "Date"!) Intense. You prefer to stay in with take out and conversation - so that no one else is distracting you and your date...(should be....mate, Dom or sub!) Your seduction style: (Ok, I Do Seduce!!) Hot! New partners have trouble believing that your libido is for real. You have incredible sexual intuition - you always know what your lover craves. (*Wink*) A bit bossy. You know what you want, and you certainly aren't afraid to ask for it. (Duh!) Tips for the future: Don't be so secretive with your love - they want you the way you are. Let go of your jealousy. Your partner has chosen *you* (Ok, I will conquer the jealousy thing in this lifetime.) Spend more time alone, doing things you love. It will help you be less obsessive. (I do not obsess!) Best color to attract mate: Dark red Best day for a date: Tuesday Get your free love profile at Blogthings.

In 1952...

Harry Truman is president of the US.

Elizabeth II becomes Queen of England after the death of her father, George VI.

First explosion of a hydrogen device takes place at Eniwetok Atoll in the Pacific.

Christine Jorgensen becomes the first medically and legally certified transsexual.

US troops complete their pull-out from Japan.

Dwight D. Eisenhower is elected President of the US.

Sister Theresa becomes Mother Theresa and begins her charity work in Calcutta.

Rick James, Douglas Adams and Liam Neeson are born.

New York Yankees win the World Series.

Detroit Lions win the NFL championship.

Detroit Red Wings win the Stanley Cup.

Charlotte's Web by E.B. White is published

I was born in Detroit, Michigan at St. Mary's Hospital, later renamed Detroit Memorial Hospital, November 20.

BDSM Groups/Places To Play In The Metro DC Area

Recently I was asked this question for the hundredth time…So I thought I would post the answer here, so that other new people to the local Scene might realize how lucky they are living in this area…

“Hi! I’m in Virginia as well and I’m interested in BDSM.
Any places to go to in Northern VA/DC area?”

Of course! We are really quite privileged in this area!

Check out the Black Rose web site... www.br.org
The registration for the annual event (conference/convention, whichever you prefer)...is going on right now... They have meetings for new people called Gateway, and regular educational Tuesday night meetings, workshops, Socials, SIGs (Special Interest Groups) meetings and the annual events, etc.

By coming out to the BR meetings, introducing yourself to people, letting them know you are new (there are volunteer greeters who can show you around and introduce you to people....) you will have a jump start on people who sit home alone and complain that they cannot find someone to play/scene with, or someone to love who is into what they are into!

The Crucible in DC is our local BDSM Pansexual club...and dungeon play space. Write to: The Crucible [contact@the-crucible.com] and ask to be placed on the mailing list for the calendar information. Or visit: http://www.the-crucible.com/

Then there is....

MAsT: DC_Pan is a pansexual chapter serving the Washington DC, Northern Virginia and Metropolitan MD area, which welcomes all genders and orientations.

MAsT: DC_Pan meets on the first Thursday of each month, and is a discussion group.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MAsT-DC_Pan

For educational workshops....

The Resource Pool…Check out their website at www.resourcepool.org , which has more detail information.

If you live closer to the Baltimore, MD area…

Baltimore Educational and Social Society (BESS)… http://www.bess-md.org/

And for Men only…
Special Interest Group Men's Association (SigMa) - Baltimore, MD/Washington, DC area http://www.sigmadc.org/

There is also a Gay MAsT-DC Group… http://www.mast.net/washdc/index.htm
And Men of Discipline (MOD) … www.dcpride.org/mod/index.html

And For Ladies Only:
Leather Lesbian And Bi Info Association (LLABIA) - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LLABIA

MAsT-DC_Pan Meeting Review

Hello, Everyone….

I just wanted to say that I am very glad that I made it to the MAsT-DC_Pan meeting on Thursday, September 16th. I have been trying to get to many different ones, but I have only gotten to two so far. I have brought someone new both times, which is my way of promoting the group and the lifestyle. Sometimes getting to things just does not work out, but I will continue to try, as they are worth the effort! This meeting was no exception. We had ten or so people at MasterJ’s, and there were no lulls in the conversation.

MasterJ said that there is a possibility that we will have to meet at another place when our numbers are too much for her little house to hold. She suggested the Green Lantern, in WDC, as a possible alternative.

The Topic for this meeting was “Finding the Master/slave of your dreams”. MasterJ was the facilitator, and she started out by saying something that I have heard her say in her presentations to larger groups, like Black Rose. She is a strong believer in “dressing to impress” and “dressing the part”. Meaning…coming to something like a BR meeting, or a Munch, (or any other event) clean and neat and presentable. Which should go without saying, but some people, let’s face it, are clueless. MasterJ is a strong believer in wearing the proper “Scene clothes”…something as simple as a black shirt/top and jeans/slacks, boots or closed-toe shoes, or as fetish as corsets or leather/latex (at the appropriate times). Never, ever wear shorts and a tee-shirt and sandals, MasterJ says.

Ok, people that know me, know that though I wear black, or black and red to things, I will often wear sandals…or clogs! I’m sorry, but I like comfort. Besides, someone has to tease the foot fetishists!!

Wearing a collar, gives the impression that you are submissive and are “taken” or “owned”. So do not wear one if you are Dominant or a sub/slave who is out there seeking a Master/Mistress, no matter how cool you think it makes you look!

One of the things that MasterJ suggested was making “the list”….of what you want in a Master/Mistress or slave. What do they need to look like, act like, qualities they need to possess, the things they need to be proficient at, or anything that is a MUST for you. So you know in your mind what you are looking for, and can save yourself a lot of time and effort. We all agreed and some had never thought of doing that.

I mentioned that you need to know what YOU are about too! What do YOU want to BE? What do you want to do in the scene? Do you want to remain discreet and private? Or do you have a want, need even, to play in “the Public Scene”, as some do. What kind of Master/Mistress do you intend to be? Loving/gentle? Strict/Disciplinarian? A combination? Are you going to want rituals? Service? Sex?

What sort of slave do you think you are? MasterJ asked, “What will you do for ME, the Dominant?” Will you give the dominant service? Will you scrub floors or toilets? Personal service, such as pedicures and baths? Do you have the skill to give a really good massage? (If so, please do email me. *Grin*) So many submissives will say, “I will make your fantasies come true!” Really? What if my fantasy is having a clean house? (Sex, I can get anywhere! *Wicked Smile*) You need to know what you will/will not do as a sub/slave!

And let me add here….it gets really old to have a so-called “service oriented submissive” tell you that he (so far all have been male) will come to clean your house, or “do anything you want him to do”, only to have him not show up, or back out at the last minute. I really hope these guys are getting their jollies doing this to FemDoms. They should be aware of the fact that we do talk to one another, will relate such stories, and sooner, rather than later, those guys will be on every FemDom’s “shitlist” in the local Scene. They are like those subs that never seem to be able to meet you for the first time (male and female, I’m sure)….they are wannabes, or the only submission they will ever practice is the kind they do in their minds, while their hands/vibes are busy elsewhere.

Know yourself, or at least have an idea of what you think you want and might be and will do. Remember that people change, from experience and the longer they are in the Scene. What you think is a “hard limit” now, might be the thing you love doing the most later on! *Wicked Smile* And I do speak from personal experience!

It was nice to see people that I know well, attending the meeting, and to meet a few people for the first time, who I hope will become friends too.

Thank you to MasterJ for opening her beautiful home to us for this session of MAsT-DC_Pan.

Raevenne
aka LadyRaevenne

Celtic Raven 

Fulfill My Fantasy - - - Clean My House!!!

Hello! It's late Friday night, early Saturday morning...depends on how you look at it...As a so-called "night owl", it's night to me.

There were all sorts of things that I was supposed to do today...but I was online IM'ing with "potentials" and did not accomplish anything more than dishes and cleaning the toilet.

That's supposed to be my sub/slave's job - maintaining a clean house for me... Why is that not happening?

Why? Cause all the male subs/slaves I meet want to "fulfill my fantasies", they say. What if my fantasy is to have a really clean house?? Huh?? How about that fantasy? *Sigh*

I am living my fantasies out in real life!! I am having the D/s relationships that I always dreamed of. Only, they are not lasting as long and doing as well as my fantasies would have dictated. I guess you can't have everything?

I have had one loyal sub/slave for the past four years or so, but he is a Marine, and I hardly get to see him! He is always off defending his country instead here paying attention to me!! *Wicked Smile* I know, I know....and I love him for it. It's funny that even though he moved across the country to the San Diego area, he still thinks of me as his Domina. That's loyalty...and probably laziness...after all, there are Dommes in California too! *Smile* Still, it is nice to think that we will always have this connection, he and I.

Well, best get going....have to do today what I did not do yesterday...getting my hair and nails done, finding gifts and figuring out something for the "community table", as people in the scene call a buffet or potluck...after I get some sleep!

I hope you all have a great weekend...and that for at least a part of this weekend...you "Delve Into Your Intense & Impatient Desire".... Have fun!!

A Tender Chastisement

A Tender Chastisement
By Lady Raevenne


I lead you to the frame fully clothed and
Attach your cuffs

I do not cover your eyes, so you may know
People are watching

I select the knife you know to
Be the sharpest

I stand behind you and start to cut
You’re very still

I see bare flesh as your
Clothes slip away

I feel my breath catch in my throat as I see
Your naked ass

I see your nipples harden to nubs as
Cool air assembles

I run my nails down your sides
Feeling you tremble

I stand close, my breath
Upon your face

I wrap my arms around your neck
Kissing you haughtily

I whisper softly in your ear
“You’ve been naughty!”

I let my hands trail down your naked flesh
And you moan

I touch your thighs gently, spreading your legs,
And you groan

I smile as you strain against your bonds
To be touched

I pinch your nipples, knowing that you love
It so much

I hear you gasp
Watching you writhe

I blow warm air your skin tingles
You barely breathe

I point my cane to various parts
Flicking them lightly

I play you like a violin
Oh so brightly

I walk up behind you and whisper
“Twenty you’ll receive!”

I know you are sorry, but too
Late to grieve

I wait between each stroke for the
“Thank you, Mistress!”

I give you twenty of my
Hardest and best

I move close behind you
Grabbing your hair

I pull your head back and kiss you
Sharing your air

I release you roughly
With mock disdain

I walk around from behind to
Face you again

I look down at your full erection
Dripping pre-cum now

I look deep into your eyes
Raising my brow

I seriously ask, “Did I give you
Permission to come?”

I see fear in your eyes before you bow
Your head low

I hear your voice whisper
“No, Mistress, no.”

I ask matter-of-factly, “You know
What this means?”

I hear your soft groan
“Please Mistress, please!”

I do not reply, but fetch the rope, tying your cock with
Excess to spare

I make you open your mouth,
Holding it there

I ignore your groan of agony
Knowing what’s coming

I simply take the crop out of the chest, giving you fifty, no
More, no less

I cleverly ignite the fire
In your soul

I know you are suffering, but that
Is my goal

I touch your cock with my boot, and
You spasm again

I look at my handiwork
Vibrant red stripes

I suddenly get an idea and
Smile with delight

I notice you look at me
So wearily so

I decide to tell you what I want
You to know

I smile and say, “It is time,
My sweet pet!”

I take your cock rope into my hand
“Holding your breath?”

I quickly pull hard and long on your rope
You scream, surprised!

I make your cock twirl like the propeller
Of a plane

I laugh right out loud as you
Hop in place

I notice that the audience
Appreciates the show

I smile wickedly, and ask you, “One more time?”
You say, “NO!”

I notice your red face
Embarrassed are you

I touch your cheek gently, saying, “So
Proud of you!”

I untie your wrist cuffs from the frame overhead
And tell you

“Come darling, it is time for our bed!”

All Material Copyright © 2000 Raevenne Black All Rights Reserved.

Delve Into Your Intense & Impatient Desire...

Hello and welcome to "Ravenous!"....

I have taken the name of my new Blog from my column at "D/s World"... http://www.bdsmlife.net/dsworld/writers/ra.html - as I felt it was appropriate for a Blog such as this one will be.

I am a practitioner of BDSM...I am into Domination and submission...Yes, both. I am what is called a "Switch". This means that I can be both on the Top and on the bottom when it comes to BDSM play, and I can be both Domina and submissive, Mistress and slave. I have experience in all of these.

I believe this Blog will be filled with my opinions, educational pieces, articles, fiction and poetry.

This is a new venture for me....and you are welcome to come along for the ride!

Raevenne